The word ‘attitude’ is bounced around a lot. It is used quite often in phrases. We have heard and I am sure we say things like, that attitude will be your downfall, or change that attitude, perhaps even more often as parents, I don’t like that attitude. We also say such things as positive attitude or negative attitude. But what do we mean, when we use the word, attitude? What are we talking about? Chuck Swindoll says, “We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. Wow!
Attitude is ‘a feeling or way of thinking that affects a person’s behavior’. How are attitudes born, then? Well, glad you ask!
Our attitudes are shaped by our thoughts. But before our attitudes can be developed, our thoughts are being shaped by our beliefs. Let us look at it this way… Our beliefs affect our thought life, our thoughts affect our attitudes. Our attitudes toward what we believe are shaping our actions.
BELIEFS ➡️ THOUGHTS➡️ ATTITUDES/BEHAVIOR ➡️ACTIONS
Attitude is not tangible; it shows itself in our actions. For example, when I react to situations with bickering or fighting or by becoming anxious, that is the result of hopefully, a temporary lapse of godly judgment. My actions display where I am spiritually. My attitude directs my speech, it directs my actions.
How do I change my attitude? Here are 6 steps to developing a godly attitude
I know, I know. Whenever I see ‘steps to having a better…’ I’m like really?! Does that really work? But these steps, I promise, will make a difference.
- SPEND time in the Word of God...Read and study the Bible for yourself. Although I appreciate you taking the time to read this blog; blogs are not a substitute for the Bible. II Timothy 3:16,17; Psalm 119:105; Joshua 1:8
- PRAY.. Talk to the Lord. Believe it or not, the King of Kings wants to spend time with you. Ephesians 6:18; James 5:13
- OBEY the Word of God. The scriptures are not negotiable, I’m afraid. But the wonderful thing about our God is; He gives us new mercies every morning and His grace is sufficient for today. John 14:15; I Peter 1:14;
- SPEND time with godly people. Someone once told me, Christians are hypocrites, to which I responded, ‘perhaps’. But imagine this, if Christians (people who have accepted Christ as their Savior) are not always sincere; can you really trust someone who does not know God at all? I don’t think so. Take your chances with godly, mature men and women. I John 1:7; I Peter 1:22;
- ATTEND CHURCH An unashamedly, doctrinally sound, gospel preaching church. You were not meant to walk this path alone. We need each other. We encourage and exhort each other. Philippians 4:8; Hebrews 10:25
- SERVE in a ministry. Believe it or not, we were saved to serve. The Lord has given each person a special gift. This gift is used to edify the church. I Peter 4:10,11; Galatians 6:10
Thank you, thank you, thank you to all who have taken the time to follow the blog. I am humbled by your comments and likes on the posts. May the Lord be honored on this adventure.
Have a blessed day and remember: God’s love is unfailing, unwavering and unconditional.
Do you serve in a ministry at your church? What do you do? If not, why?
61 responses to “CHANGE THAT ATTITUDE!”
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Our attitude can impact how we navigate through life
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Amen to that, not only can but will impact 😁
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“Attitude is not tangible; it shows itself in our actions. For example, when I react to situations with bickering or fighting or by becoming anxious, that is the result of hopefully, a temporary lapse of godly judgment. My actions display where I am spiritually. My attitude directs my speech, it directs my actions.”
Love this, Brenda. I have to continually remind myself of this. Would you mind if I used some of your blogs from time to time as guests blogs on my site? Would love for my readers to see your heart and insight. All of God’s blessings, Sister in Christ!
Shawn
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I don’t mind at all, Shawn. May our God truly receive all the glory. We all the need that reminder daily, I know I do 😊
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Yes, to God be the glory in everything! Thanks so much!
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Thanks for sharing this encouragement at Booknificent Thursday on Mommynificent.com!
Tina
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To our God be the glory I love the link ups what an awesome opportunity
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Great post
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thank you, may the Lord bless you
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😃😃
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Such healthy tips here! #3 is spot on! It’s not enough that we pray and read the Word, but we must obey what it says as well! So often I think we forget that part of the equation. Great post!
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That’s where the change and growth begins. In the surrender and submission to the Word of God 🙂
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Like my pastor says if someone says to you they don’t want to come to church because it’s full of hypocrites, answer back, “Well you’re welcome to come visit anytime, there’s always room for one more!”
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😂😂😂 ohhh I like that! We hear This statement too may times. Thanks for commenting
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This post was definitely an eye opener for me! I nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger Award, you deserve it, here’s the link: https://nonchalantdiva.wordpress.com/2018/04/12/sunshine-blogger-award/
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To God be the glory, thank you so much. This is so much appreciated
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You’re welcomee
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Wow! I loved reading this. Very inspiring yet very convicting as well lol I know I’m not the only one who got convicted reading this 😌 especially when you said “My actions show where I am Spiritually”. Wow! Very profound and very true. I always say that I can tell when I’m not close enough to the Lord because my thoughts and my actions show it! Thank you for this post!
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To the Lord be the glory. We are all there at one point or another. We need to hasten to the Lord when we find ourselves in need of forgiveness. Thanks for commenting 😊
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I so agree! Beliefs and thoughts are the roots of our attitudes and behaviors. That discovery has been so important in my walk with the Lord. Praise God that He can transform our thoughts and beliefs as we spend time in His Word!
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That’s proof that we serve a Might God! One who is able to literally transform lives. Love my God! Thanks for commenting
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Yes yes yes!!! “Read the Bible for yourself!” I agree, secondhand faith is cheap. I’ve only been studying the Bible for less than a year and it has been a journey! It was really hard to understand in the beginning but with the guidance of the Holy Spirit and mature Christian friends, it’s been possible. Thank you for sharing those steps (they do work!). 🙏❤️
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Amen! On our own, we can sometimes become Satan’s prey, but within the family it becomes more difficult. As we ourselves mature in the Word of God, we become examples to others. Thanks for commenting 😃
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Amen amen!!!
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Great advice! Also a great reminder of things I already know but need to hear again and again. Thanks for what you do with your blog and the reminders that keep us on track 😊
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Praise the Lord, to Him be the glory. This earthly home is temporary, the Lord is preparing us to spend eternity with Him. At the end of the day, what will we present to Him? Thanks for commenting 😃
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Great points! I consider my life as a ministry. Serving others keeps my attitude in check.
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Amen to that! The Lord set a great example by becoming a Servant of man. Thank you for commenting
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Excellent post! Definitely some very great points to think about and realize how I do (or don’t!) incorporate them in my life…:) God Bless!
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May the Lord be praised. Thank you, I can guarantee these points because I do implement them in my life. It works! God is good
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“Attitude is not tangible; it shows itself in our actions.” <—– THIS! I talk to my kids about this exact concept all the time. If you want to change your behavior, you have to change your attitude… which means you change the way you think! Thanks for some practical tips here.
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Amen, right! What do our actions say about our attitude toward the Word of God? Do I believe it? Thanks for commenting
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A really uplifting post. Practical and Godly tips to improve your attitude. Thanks. Visiting from Breakthrulinkup 29.
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Thank you so much, John. I love the Linkup parties. May the Lord’s Name be praised, we can’t go wrong when we simply do things God’s way
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This is a wonderful blog post! Spending time in the Word is very important as it gives us a better insight on our situations and helps us to respond-rather than react to our circumstances. Keep writing these wonderful posts, blessings ❤
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Our God is faithful. He wants us to know Him, then we will trust and love Him. We gain so much when we spend time with the Lord
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Thank you and thank God for you. I am moving back in a strong way to our God and I can see the difference. I hear Him and see his Grace in my life now more than ever. Your posts are helping me, I am helping others and things are a whole lot brighter. God bless you.
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Amen! Our God is amazing and Word is true. It will accomplish what He sets it our to do. May the Lord’s Name be praised
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Love these ways to maintain a “good attitude.” So simple yet they go a LONG way, and sometimes when we are in the middle of a bad attitude, we simply need these reminders. Thanks for the list!
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Amen! To the Lord be the glory 😃 Our Godnis awesome 👏🏽
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I just invited you to join me in the 3 Day Quote Challenge 🙂
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Thank you 😊 I will start over the weekend
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Your Welcome 🙂
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Sometimes we say “attitude check” at our house. Your here points are excellent!
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Love that! Attitude check! Immediately brings us back to where we should be, without straying too far. Thanks for sharing
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Love this!! A prodigal daughter here, just returned to God after 13 years. Why do we fight His love? My heart is for young women and children. I’m helping out with the Sunday School. Feels good to be back and I’m following your blog, too!! 😊
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Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord! To our God be all the glory and praise. Welcome home Jenni, welcome. Thank you for this good news
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I do believe those steps will work! 😊💗
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I agree! Change will come, the Bible is alive! 🙂
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All your points are spot on. Great post!
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To the Lord be the glory.. we must be intentional in our relationship with the Lord. Thanks for commenting 🙂
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Thank You! This was a powerful post. I love that Chuck Swindoll quote. Blessed to be your neighbor over at the Ra Ra linkup this week!
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Yeah! I love visits from the linkups. Thanks for stopping by 😁 our attitude determines our actions, may we choose an attitude adjustment to be more like Christ
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Straight up truth! Attitude is a choice. Thanks for these helpful steps (they do work!!)
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Amen! There really isn’t another way. Every word of God is true and should be truth for us 😊
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I loved number 1–our world is far from living this way!
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Which is why we are here! But if as Christians we would start there, we could make a great difference
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Wonderful thoughts! I really appreciate Swindoll’s teaching too. “You need an attitude adjustment” is a comment my kids know around here. They also know it is followed up with orders to go have their time alone with Jesus (part of our daily family routine) and ask Him to change their 💓. Mom too–I need my daily tune up too!
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The post I’m just finishing up with contains some of these same thoughts as I’ve been trying to encourage my son toward helping him reach a goal of his…but a positive attitude will need to be a top Godly character for him to succeed!
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Amen to that! 😃 true success is attained when our God is at the helm
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