Hey friends, how are you today? Today… how are you? Just you… not your friends, not your family, not your circumstances; you are none of these, so how are you today? Sometimes it takes me a minute to answer this question when I’m asked, simply because usually I instinctively reflect on what’s going on in my life. In light of the happenings of my life, I can answer ‘fine’ or ‘not so fine’. But the truth is, as much as I am part of the people and the state of my circumstances, I am not them and that. Although I am part, I am still separate from all of it. I guess the truth is, most times I do allow outside to influence my emotions and also my state of mind.

Our Savior came to give life, not just the bare minimum of life, but a full, almost to the point of bursting; He came to give abundant life.
For most of us, our mental health is linked to our emotions, isn’t it? 2020 has brought with it a seesaw of emotions; there’s been frustrations, anger, pity, compassion, and perhaps even sorrow and the cases of depression have soared. When I’m constantly ‘tired’ even after a good night’s rest, I know to take stock of my emotions. When I feel sluggish and lethargic, even after doing the bare minimum (which is also a sign) I know to be careful… ‘my feet is slipping’.

Unfortunately, in spite of 2020 and its shenanigans, life didn’t stop for most of us. Death had its place, jobs and finances had their day, friends and family also had their time; life continued in spite of 2020, which just magnified even the smallest problems.

But friends, the Lord did not abdicate His throne. 2020 isn’t unexpected, it was perfectly planned all along and for our good. The good can’t be found with our eyes on the issues of life, the good of this year, in spite of the circumstances can only be found with our eyes fixed on the Lord. In His Word and in His presence, we will find the beauty that was always in 2020. Yes friends, there was beauty and freedom and grace and mercy and forgiveness all the time, we just had to look, to see it.

Let’s go back to what we know to be true, God is God; God is good; God is in control.





Sooo… how are you doing today? You… just you. Do you have aches and pains? Does your heart ache? Is your mind in the right space?

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40 responses to “HOW ARE YOU?”
Honestly? I am more blessed than I deserve!
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😃😃 oh yes, I know that! We have been granted to so much
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Ur pics of nature are beautiful as well. I just blogged on nature and it’s healing impacts!! https://donovancarper.com/index.php/2020/09/26/get-outdoors-to-heal-your-body-and-your-mind/
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Thanks for sharing, my friend. May the Lord bless you
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Excellent pick me up!!!
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Praise the Lord, to Him be all the glory
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Today I am good. A little melancholy. Listening to jars of clay much afraid. Thinking on doing a post on maturity in faith. My adhd isn’t beating me down today but yes I do have some sadness. But in sadness we have hope in Christ. The psalms acknowledges both our highs and lows. So should we. God wants us to find peace in him but we can’t find peace without acknowledging our struggles with hope. Without hope is despair, happiness without acknowledging our struggles is denial and eventually we break. This balance the scriptures brings is true peace. Thank you for your light.
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Music is soothing to the soul. It brings so much comfort and usually brings our eyes back on the Lord
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Thank you 🙏🏽
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Thank you 😊
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God is God; God is good; God is in control. This is going to be my next mantra! Thank you, Brenda, for a good word and beautiful pictures as always. Blessings.
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😀😀 it has definitely become my mantra. I found at times, it was becoming too easy to focus on the circumstances rather than on the Lord
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Thanks Brenda! I feel like there have been a lot of deaths lately. This week alone I heard of three. So it’s been an emotional week for me. I’m glad God knows all things and we’re safe in Him. ❤️
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Well, I’m great Spiritually, aching physically & feeling contemplative emotionally Brenda. Thank you for asking ♥
How are You going?
Bless you,
Jennifer
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I am fine, really. I can actually say that and I thank the Lord for that. God bless you, my friend
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I heard a new song in the car this morning, and I think it ties in nicely to your post. So often we do not tell the truth when people ask about us. Who really wants to hear, anyway, right? But in God’s family we can be honest and truthful. He is here for us, and we are here for each other. Matthew West, Truth Be Told. Here is the link to his video should you want to listen 😊🤗 https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=matthew+west+truth+be+told&view=detail&mid=7C37CDF1D95566D9416C7C37CDF1D95566D9416C&FORM=VIRE0&ru=%2fsearch%3fq%3dmatthew%2bwest%2btruth%2bbe%2btold%26cvid%3d4902ac9bae704e4ab771ab6923d033ad%26pglt%3d547%26FORM%3dANNTA1%26PC%3dLCTS
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Thanks for sharing, my friend and that’s part of the problem too, who wants to hear, cause it just may take some time, right? God bless you,my friend
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Blessings to you as well!!
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No matter what I lose, Christ still remains! I am doing fine. ❤😊❤
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Amen and amen 🙏🏽 we can trust Him
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Thank you for this timely post. Even when I may be experiencing a rollercoaster of mixed emotions, God is indeed in control.
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That needs to be our mantra. God is in control
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Praise God I am doing well, thanks so much for asking, it is really important to take care of ourselves physically and emotionally, and spiritually
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Yes, and yes, we must take care of this body if we are to be about our Father’s business
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Beautiful photos.
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Thank You, my friend
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Amen and I love the beautiful photos! Sometimes we have ZOOM OUT to see God’s hand in the chaos. Bless you, friend!
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Amen 🙏🏽 At times that’s the only to see the situation is standing apart from it
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I love this. The beauty in the year still remains if only we would see through the eyes of our saviour – Jesus. 🙌
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Amen 🙏🏽 that’s the key 🔑 to living life abundantly
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I love seeing the world through your eyes. Each of your posts brings a new beauty to my day.
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Praise the Lord, my friend. God bless you
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What a helpful reminder. Thank you so much for this post! I often forget to separate “myself” from my circumstances and everything/everyone around me.
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It certainly isn’t easy to separate ourselves, but God… He will help us when we ask
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I’m better. Thanks for asking and blogging!
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Praise the Lord. God bless you, my friend
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Thank you for this post. I really needed to read this after the week I’ve had. Thank you for the inspiration my friend! 😊🥰✨❤️
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Praise the Lourdes to Him be all the glory
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Amen amen amen 🙏🏾✨🙌🏾✨🙏🏾✨🙌🏾✨🙏🏾
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