Hey friends, how are you today? Wow! Can you believe we’ve lived through the first six months of the year already? For some, six months have simply flown by, while for others, these past few months have perhaps moved at a snails’ pace. Our beliefs determine what and how we think, which also determines our perspective of life. 2020 has been a very unusual year, if I do say so myself, between coronavirus and the BLM movement, this year will certainly go down in history. And then of course, life does not stop, does it? Life, with all its curve balls and lemons must be lived in spite of the world’s calamities.

Sometimes it’s hard to see the Lord’s hands in life’s circumstances, especially when they are unexpected. I find it a bit difficult to adjust to this new normal, at times. Changes make me leery; I know they are good for me, but I instinctively shied away from changes, especially those I don’t like. Although I’ve walked with the Lord while, it’s hard to naturally trust Him. It’s usually after my third or fourth or more ineffective attempt at solving the problem that I hasten to His feet. It’s not that I don’t talk to Him about it, I do, I just have not really given it to Him, or I do give over the issues, but with certain conditions. “I would prefer You to do it this way, Lord, and in this manner”.

Why, after I’ve walked with the Lord for so many years, do I still find this so difficult? Why isn’t trust instinctive yet? Will it ever be? How much longer will I struggle, because trials will come my way, can it be because I do not believe He is trustworthy? Why do I not believe?

Perhaps it’s because I have not completely accepted the love of God. God loves me! Me! He loves me! Perhaps I need to remind myself of this against and again. I am loved by the God of the Universe. I am loved! How do I know this? Here are five reasons…

Christ died for my sins; all my past, present and future sins. He paid a debt He did not owe, so that He could bridge that gap between the Father and me. He loved me, when He left His throne and took on the form of a Servant Man. He loved me when He died on the cross and was later buried. He loved and continues to love me when He rose again and is presently preparing a place for me. He loves me.

Creation tells me I am loved by the Creator of the Universe. The variety in the birds and their sounds tells me that if the Lord cares for and loves these creatures, then He must certainly love me. The trees testify of His love; the sun and moon and stars declare His precious love for me.

My friends and family tell me of God’s love for me. In their love for me, I see God’s love. Through their sometimes very conditional love, I learn to appreciate the Lord’s unconditional, unwavering love for me.

The Word of God tells me I am loved. From Genesis to Revelation, scriptures declare the absolute love of God. I see the reflection of this love in the lives of Ruth and Esther. I hear it in the voice of Isaiah and Matthew. I am loved and I know it, because the Bible tells me so.

I know I am loved because the God above all gods have given me free reign in His presence. He has granted me permission to talk with Him without a human mediator. I have access to Him, I can share all my worries and cares, all my weaknesses and supposed strengths, I can take to Him.

I believed I am loved when I see all my blessings. When I begin to name them one by one, my belief in His love for me is strengthened. I am loved by the King of kings when I am thankful for our home, our family, our friends, food on my table, shoes on my feet. I am loved.

There is so much around us that declares the love of God. We can rest, secure and confident in the everlasting love of God. We are loved beyond measure and His love for us sure outweighs the mountains in our lives. 2020 may not be exactly how we imagined it at the beginning of the year. Our vacation plans and our wishlist or bucket list may not materialize, but we can trust the Lord because He loves us. Oh, how He loves us! How do you know, that you know, that you know, you are loved?

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42 responses to “HOW DO YOU KNOW FOR SURE?”
THANK YOU FOR THIS TIMELY POST…IN HIS SPIRIT!…
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Amen 🙏🏽 all glory to our God
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Love everything you’ve noted…I feel His love best/strongest through prayer and reading His word❤️
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Amen and amen 🙏🏽 that’s how we remain secure and confident of and in His love
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Yes you are loved. Allah azza wa jall bestows mercy on all His servants and is with all of us.
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thank you for this reminder 🙂 May the Lord bless you abundantly
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Thanks for sharing this post ma’am. 🤗❤
It is a good reminder to us to trust God, knowing that He has loved us then, and still does now. His love lasts all time long.
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amen 🙂 His love is eternal and not just for us as christians, but for the whole world. God bless you, my friend
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Yes ma’am. 💯💃
Amen. And you too.
A blessed Sunday to you and the family. 😊
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thank you 🙂
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It’s easy for people to “say” they trust God entirely and would never waiver in their faith. I have said similar things. Could I stand strong like the Christians in foreign lands have done in recent times as they were being burned and all they had to do to save themselves is denounce their faith? Beautifully written article, thank you!
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Thank You. In trials and tribulations, it’s hard to trust in what we can’t see; we have to be reminded, most times, that we know the truth
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God definitely knows how to use people to get His word across. I literally shed tears last night as I had this conversation with my husband. I couldn’t figure out why does my fear outweigh my faith when I know God continues to cover me. Both my devotion and your post have given me a sense of peace this morning. God will never leave me nor forsake me. Trust Him! Thank you, Brenda!
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Praise the Lord! To our wonderful and great God be all the glory. He most certainly gives us what we need, when we need it
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Thank you, Brenda, for this encouraging word. I needed it today!
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Praise the Lord, to our wonderful God be all the glory 🙏🏽
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Yes’ Thankful for each reason and thankful that He uses each of His redeemed children to encourage one another! Thank you for reminding all who read to run to Him and to His Word, to stand firm and steadfast in the truth of His love for us! Much joy as we trust Him and walk with Him!
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Our joy and security is found in the Lord, we know that for sure when we spend time with Him. Thank you
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A wonderfully written and timely reminder for us all…thank you!!
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Praise the Lord, to our hreatGod be all the glory 🙏🏽
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I love this:
“His love for us… outweighs the mountains in our lives.” That’s some amazingly weighty love to outweigh mountains!!
I know that I know because of Christ’s sacrifice for me and because of the peace, joy, and assurance that He gives me when I linger in His Presence.
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Amen 🙏🏽 that’s truly the only to be confident in the love of God..when we spend time with Him. Praise the Lord
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Wonderful piece! 2020 has not turned out how I have expected and through a few disappointments I have seen God bless me in so many ways. Thank you for reminding me that God is truly in control. I hope you have a blessed day😁
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Yes! That’s it exactly! He is in control, He is trustworthy
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I used to wonder if I was loved by God, because of circumstances in my life. God finally opened up my understanding to realize when I have doubts about God loving me, I only have to look at the cross, and I know I am loved, beyond words. His love doesn’t depend on my performance (I tend to be a perfectionist–not good). His love for me depends on Him. Thank God!
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Amen and amen and amen 🙏🏽 what a wonderful reminder that the love of our God does not depend on us. Yes! Praise the Lord!
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Oh, you look so fresh and cool and summery in your photo! Love it.
I am grateful to know what it feels like to be loved because of my parents. There were a lot of things I didn’t like about it at the time, but that foundation has provided me with a lifetime assurance that I am worth loving. When God grabbed me, I got a whole new definition of love. I want God.
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Amen and amen 🙏🏽 knowing and having the love of our loved ones helps us to accept the love of God a bit faster I think. Thank you my friend, Kathy. God bless you
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Sometimes our finite mind cannot comprehend the infinite character of God.
No matter how old we are in the Lord we will never reach full knowledge of understanding God.
Paul tells us that we look through a glass darkly:1 Corinthians 13:12 KJV
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
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Amen and amen and amen 🙏🏽 I absolutely love the way you said that, truly our in infinite in all He is! God bless you
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You are loved by God so very much 🙂
I loved your post today. Good to be reminded of how we can know God loves us 🙂
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I am loved 😁 I just need to keep reminding myself of this very fact. God bless you, my friend
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So beautiful! I love the way you describe the love of God!
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Praise the Lord, to Him be the glory 😊God bless you
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I seem to continually need to be reminded of God’s great and powerful love. Thank God He is gracious to remind me!
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Amen and amen 🙏🏽 it’s too easy to be consumed with whatever we are facing, at times. We need that reminder
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Christ knows the pain that we and the people we love endures, and He walks with us
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Amen 🙏🏽 He loves through And in the the pain
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Yes all the reasons you listed tell me I am loved by almighty God . But recently going with Mom through dementia He taught me another place to know His love…through our suffering. In our suffering we are introduced to a bit of what He suffered for us. Our suffering makes His love more real, more personal.
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Ah yes, Our Comforter during our suffering, that’s a good one, my friend. Thanks for reminding us of this very fact
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As you have said, there is so much around us that declares His love. So much! He is love and cannot deny Himself.
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